As Women we’re taught to give and do everything for everyone with little to nothing in return. Taught that it’s selfish to put ourselves first.

We’re told how we should dress, act, be, etc everyone just feels as if they should have so much say so over women… We’re shamed for being a certain way and dressing a certain way.. Literally every little thing.

It’s great to be caring and wanting to help others but don’t overdue it. Everyone should have a certain limit of help from you if they don’t they’ll turn into users. Don’t listen to society it’s not selfish to put yourself first it’s healthy. It’s how it’s supposed to be. Everyone else should be afterwards.

You’ll still be an amazing mom if you put yourself first instead of your kids I promise you. You can’t give them the best version of you if you neglect yourself.

I shared this because I was always over extending myself for everyone else with nothing in return. Don’t be like that. Have boundaries. It’s perfectly fine to be a good person but don’t let everyone constantly take from you. You’re the mother, the gf/wife, sister, daughter, etc all in one. We have all these different roles. Everyone looks to us women for help with everything yet in society we’re looked at as the weaker links… Yet we’re needed for everything to stay in place..? How does that work?

We’re the portals. We have to tap back in and realize our true power. Also know that we’re the glue to everything so with all that pressure it’s good to make sure to have time to ourselves to recoup so we can stay sane. We got this. We’re amazing. #Motherhood101