This was on my mind all day the other day. I was sitting there thinking what if what we actually see in the mirror isn’t how we really look since we’re so used to seeing ourselves.

Which would explain why others would be stunned looking at us. Complimenting us. Admiring us. If you have low self esteem you definitely wouldn’t see what others do. I know I didn’t but when I dug myself out of all the self pity and rejection. I’d look back at my pictures and just say wow… nothing was wrong with me I’m so beautiful but since I had already convinced myself in my mind I wasn’t attractive or enough. How I felt was reflected back to me. It’s the same for you too if you struggle with these things. We will never see our true beauty if we’re constantly hating ourselves.

It’s true we’re really a whole different better version of ourselves when we’re in a clear state of mind. A free mind. A confident mind. A healthy… mind… if you keep hating yourself you’ll never unlock that part. Take it day by day. It was extremely hard for me to do that after having kids and my body literally changed in every way… i never took pics of myself after I had my oldest.. i was ashamed…

I slowly got myself out I’d say affirmations, journal, move around as in dancing or working out. I’ll copy which affirmations I say that can help you get started until you’re in a place where all the positive affirmations just come to you and flow I got them from a herbalist I watch. I have my own too but I really love hers.

Go stand in front of the mirror and speak:

I am love, I am abundant, I am Beautiful, I am intelligent and excellent in all things that I do. I am talented, I am Kind, I am Prosperous, I am a nurturer, I am a goddess, I am a creator, I am Fearless, I am courage, I do have the strength, I can and I will breathe freely. I am supreme and Magnificent, I am generous, I am Gold, I am Rare, I am a Gem, I love my body, my skin and my hair. I am a Diamond, I am thankful, I am grateful, I am super human, I am a Wise womb man, I am All.

If you’re going to cast spell on your self all day at least do it willingly and at least let them be amazing. Know this, Speak this, become this❤️