Everyone I’ve came across always made it seem like SAHM got the “easy” way out when we didn’t we literally work 24/7 no breaks. Stuck in the house with kids all day with little time to ourselves. I’ve gone back & forth with people about it I just don’t understand why we’re shamed. I know many moms rushing to go back to work and it saddens me. We can’t even heal properly without jobs rushing for us to get back to work. One mom I knew said they told her she’d get fired if she didn’t come back right at 6 weeks…

I don’t understand why everyone seems to think “6 weeks” is enough.. When really that was created solely for men being pleased quicker.. it had nothing to do with women actually being “healed”

We honestly need up to a whole year to get back right. 6 weeks is too soon.. for all the moms out there sobbing over their bodies after 6 weeks it’s okay realize you just had a baby🥹.

I’m 6mo pp and I’m no where near how I want to look but I’ve stopped being so mean to myself. I know there are plenty who snapped back instantly but if you didn’t don’t beat yourself up..

Pregnancy & birth is a near death experience appreciate your bodies. Love on them. Wear those clothes that you were skeptical about. Show off your rolls, stretch marks, thicker thighs etc. Don’t EVER be ashamed of you💚…

I hope one day society actually looks at us women as humans and not objects. Also realize that after a baby comes with a lot we’re not just perfectly fine at 6 weeks. It’s sad so many things get overlooked or is said to be “normal” after babies when truth is they just don’t care about our health. 6 week checkup they just look at your cervix, ask a few stupid questions and that’s it… HOW is that enough?? How did this become so normal to neglect women? Especiallyyy after they’ve had a baby or babies.. it’s not right!